Being Married :)

Many people have been asking me the same questions. "So how is marriage life?" "Any difference?"

With a smile my answer of course yes lar.. Even though Nigel and I meet basically everyday before we were married but now besides the convenience, we also feel that we have more time to be together.. We have more freedom and we are more focus.

What ever that we do we involve the Holy Spirit to teach us and guide us. We want to be a better person, for each other. And every time i feel i want to bust out of anger or frustration i would suddenly remember the vows i took on the alter. I remember the promises i made to God and Nigel, and i would calm down.. Its really amazing how God help us in our relationship, with Him and with each other.

I do believe Nigel have changed after the wedding.. he may not know it :) he became more confident, more open about his feelings and happier.. he is now able to be more focus in his work,able to enjoy and even share his hobbies with me. its really sweet that he cooks for me most of the time.. he'll say because i cook very slow and my food taste weird (hey! I'm adventurous.. like his dad hahahaaha) :P but for those who have tasted my food you be the judge lar ha.. but yes... i think i cook a bit slower than him and messier... still trying to improve :)

Well, overall i'm still discovering new sides of Nigel and its very exciting ahahah.. we have been going out for about 6 years and on the 7th year of our relationship we got married and we are still pretty much in love with each other.. Thanks to Jesus :) Nigel makes me laugh, he is not a joker or anything but he just amazes me with his comments and its also sometimes (or most of the time) farny lar...

I thank God for Nigel.. many have said that we are so different... not just in sizes but even in terms of character and preference.. but we have one thing in common.. We both know that God loves and cares us. He has a great purpose for us and we are to work things out for God's Glory..

Happy New year Ya'll!!!

Its gonna be a great 2008!!!!!

2007 has been tough for me.. So many uncertainty and stress. Gone through farewells, retrenchments (twice in my company), wedding preparation and ministries demands.. Oh boy, what a year! :0 I'm really glad though.. from all the turmoil, hard work and persistence. I think I made it through.. God has been truly wonderful to me and Nigel in 2007.. more than words can say :) too much had happened. It was bad in the beginning but God always turned it around and made it better.. if not great :) We truly do not deserve the blessings but God gave without being Kedekut.. We truly love you God..

Looking back, I do not regret any of my decisions.. accept things tt I may have done tt hurt ed someone.. I dunno, may be i have uttered some nasty comments and hurt u guys or gals out there.. I'm truly sorry. I dun think i mean to but do confront me if I had.. I truly want to make things right with you... :)

As I say good bye to my single hood in 2007 and looking forward to my marriage life in 2008, I'm overwhelmed with anticipation of what God is going to do next.. In my Walk with Him, In my relationship with Nigel and family members, with Frens & church members (NLRC Cheras), in my Ministry (CPY & worship) and in my career (Corbis).. WOW!!! I really dunno.. I pray no matter what happens, GOD will give me the power, strength, wisdom and love to go through it all.

It's going to be a challenging 2008! and Nigel & I are all geared up for it! We hope we may love as much as God has loved us.. We hope we may show the kind of love GOD has showed us.. to u who are reading this and those around us.. yes even those tt may not like us. (Nigel dun really bother, to him 'dun like dun like lar' ahahaha):( But he is full of gratitude and thanks giving to Our Lord Jesus.. Who has help us in our time of need..

"We love because He first loved us... " ! John 4:19