Really meh?? LOL..

According to Blaine, there are 3 uncommon things EVERY girl wants in a guy, they are...

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1) Spirit of desire (who have vision, drive and desire for life and are willing to work to reach thier goals.)

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2) A spirit of kindness (How a man should treat others-- manners and etiquette.) and

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3) A spirit of justice (A person who knows how to distinguish right from wrong and is not afraid to stand up for truth. Have some back bone and do not back down to the pressure of friends.)

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EEeeeiiiiii!!!!~~~ sounds attractive enough.. :D sounds like ur man or not?? Sounds like mine akakakaka... but i got one more character i must have in my kinda man.. can you guess what it is? :D

Don't be discounraged..

We face so much discouragement everyday.. haih.. people and circumstances that put us down and make us feel so defeated.. we know that we should think positive and always look at the bright side.. have faith and so on.. but we sometimes can't help but to feel down the dump.. If you are always 100% optimistic, then perhaps you are not realistic.. basically did not look in the mirror................................ LOL.. i did and i look i need to take a shower!! :P

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okok.. i think i am a positive person.. but not until I loose touch on reality.. :D Can anyone be TOO positive?? anyone u know?? I have not seen or known anyone such as tt yet.. wait.. lemme think... hmm... got lar.. one :D but i dun wanna tell u who he is... ahahaha at least you know he is a guy lar..

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anyway... back to my topic.. I just want to tell the ppl out there who are down.. that they can choose to be happy and joyful in any circumstances that they are in now.. as long as you know.. not matter how.. no matter what.. SOMEONE LOVES YOU... :) and that love is enough to sustain your sanity and continue to live a full life!.. I hope you know who am i talking about.. coz if you say that the SOMEONE i am referring to is your girlfriend or boyfriend, then you are mistaken... If you think i'm referring to your spouse? also mistaken... Your children? Your best friends?? AH~~ AH~~ nope... coz all human can let us down, not matter how hard we try.. we sometimes just can't please everybody..

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The only person that SOMEONE i am referring to is Jesus... the Son of God!.. He is perfect.. he will never leave us not forsake us!.. He is all we need.. He is never changing.. His love will last forever... I hope you will get to know this person that really loves you for who you are and only wants the best for you.. He is awesome and gracious God.. He really loves you.. so do not be discouraged when things go wrong.. rely on Him, call upon His name, He will hear you....

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The most excellent way...

Many of us yearns to have gift of prophecy, wisdom, discernment of the spirit, performing miracles, healing etc... Competing who have these and that, who is better, who is more anointed, wise etc. But according to Paul in 1 Corinthians... the most excellent way is not all these act..

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The most excellent way is LOVE..

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Even if I gains all the wisdom in the world, do good by giving away all possessions to the poor, did all the good things for others.. and have not love.. I am nothing...

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It is really hard to love.. but love does not mean ACCEPTING ONES SINS.. I mean, if we are thinking that by keeping quite when we found out someone is doing something wrong IS LOVE... I think we are wrong..

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Love is to be patience, to be kind, do not envy,do not boast or be proud, to not be rude,not self-seeking, not easily angered, keeps no records of wrongs, do not delight in evil but rejoices in truth, always protects, always trust, always hopes, always persevere..

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Always protects.. now this is love.. and I don't know why when I protect the youth ah.. I get condemned by it.. giving stern advice so young ppl would stay away from sin, and yet many insist that I should leave them alone.. Which parent would be in the right mind to leave their tormented teen go through sin and suffer? tell me which wise parent would do tt?

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Obviously, God did not ask us to protect the lies and the sin of someone, right? so protect them against what? Protect them from the lies of the enemies, protect them from self-destruction, protect them from all harm.. why? Because they deserves it!!! Because we love them!!! Because Jesus loves them!!!

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Anyway.. I suppose if someone is ready to start over and listen then only an advise can be effective... if not.. it should not be force onto a person.. it should always be gentle and kind..

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Lord, i hope i will know how to love like you do.. coz it's hard.. everyone can misunderstood it for something else or that it is coming from a negative intention.. haih.. tt's why even with the purest of heart and the best intention in mind for the other person..would be mistaken.. the love that we so try to show is in vain.. fall on deaf ears... BUT.. Love never gives up!!! :) so I wouldn't stop learning how to love.. because it is the most excellent way..

Nice and healthy snacks.. hmmm...

I really like this rice cracker!!! soooo yummy... and sweet :P it is healthier than other junk food in the market like Twisties,Cheese Ring etc.. i think...

Alexander likes to eat it too.. aheheh but sometimes he just likes to have his biscuits..

This is how the packaging looks like..

Cleaning up my photo album in FB...

Wow... i got loads of photos on my FB acount.. :D but now it is mostly Privitized~~ only left the ones posted this year... I am going to clean up my Friend list also... soon.. If I cannot categories that person than the person is obviously not my fren :P

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Looking at the old photos on my FB... I realized that things change so fast... especially if you are looking through a series of photos... its like seeing someone grow up in a flash!!.. I'm talking about my son Alexander.. Who grew so much :D of course... From the day he was born until his 1 year old birthday :)

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another person i see growing in my album is Han Then, ahahaha.. not that she grew or change in her looks too much but her style have.. to short hair to long and then short again.. interesting lor.. sometimes she is thin in the photos sometimes she had put on some weight.. ahehehe..

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Then Logan and Sharon.. who was in all the weddings that we attended as well.. ahahaha.. kinda fun looking at those photos.. Then the dinners we had just before Christmas :D those days were fun and enjoyable.. We always enjoy meals with them and Han Then! ahahhaa.. and those days when Alexander went to their place for a swim... hhmm... should bring him over again SOON!!! coz the swimming pool in our place is not well maintain and is super dirty... then we can take more photos!!! Yea!!!

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I wonder should i clean up my blog or not? like deleting my older post.. hmm... or deleting all the more personal post.. ya!!! good idea.. delete all the personal post?? wht you guys think??

The simplest things...

Can the simplest things make u smile?

Can the smallest flower colour ur day?

Could you feel the joy just by waking up every morning?

Could you be contented with what God has bless you so far?

Let's praise God for all His creation.. big and small...

Marah!!~~~~

YOU!~~YOU!~~~YOU!!!!!!~~~ I really dunno wht happened to you... you were not like this in the past.. you always keep your word and always plan well... but now i see you are really unreasonable and selfish.. really lor.. I dunno from which planet u came from and I cannot understand why you have become this way..

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Your temper is beyond dangerous and your self centered-ness is out of this world!!! Surely we are not from the same planet..but we have similar DNA! how can this be? what happened to you? haiiiiyyyyerrrrr!!~~

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I am now sad more than up set already.. I have always respect and looked up to you.. and in many instances DEFENDED YOU!!! help you no doubt but you still treat me with disrespect.. Am I a burden to you that I am not worth your time and love? Am I such a trouble, a torn under your feet? Am I so lowly that I do not deserve to be taken seriously and be reasonable with? so sad.. i look at your life and I also feel sad for you...

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I may have NO THINGS.. but i have family and friends.. and plenty of them.. Family and Friends who, when I cry, they cry with me; When I die, they will miss me; When i'm in need, they will help me... You have me for your family also you dun care for me.. you mistreat me.. take me for granted.. apeni?

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I believe God does not make any mistakes... and having you in my life is not a coincidence.. I'm sure there is a purpose for me to suffer your wrath.. haih.. i wished i knew how to communicate with you.. you are too self centered that you dun want to listen, you just want to do wht you want to do.. Even S-I-L also give in to you because she love you too much... (i think she is just spoiling you lor..)

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Now your only son is acting just like you.. Please think about him and your wife because at the end of the day, it is not about YOU.. Right now you may be willing to loose your family to gain the world.. but when it is too late.. you may realized that your world is God and your family..

Macaroni and Cheese.. hmmm... taught by Jo and Nic :D

Aheehee.. one of the challenge of being a home maker would be cooking meals for the family.. I THINK i can cook :P but hubby dun seems to like food that have less taste (means less or no black soy or 'kicap', less salt, less gravy etc).. so.. it is a bit hard to cook something for my hubby...

but i am trying to do my very best to cook and eat home :D

This is something i learn from a couple of fren. Their children loves to eat this on Sunday LOL... so does all the kids in church :P One afternoon, we sort of let Alexander try it and see if he likes it... boy oh boy does he LIKES it!!! hahaha.. so i decides to cook some for him at home.. not very often but i guess often enough gua...

Alexander can eat a whole plate on his own :D which we are very pleased... just.a.bit.messy... :P but we are teaching him to be more clean now a days :D now that he learns to drink from a cup and eat with spoon (sometimes not), he is getting better.. but still have a lot of room for improvement akekeke..

Here is how i prepare his mac cheese..

Cook the Macaroni about 11min in boiling water...

prepare the mushroom soup and a slice of cheese..

After the Macaroni is cooked, put in 2 big spoon of Mushroom soup and the cheese..

Stir it and Walla~~~

Nice and juicy.. :D

5 decisions young ppl make that sabotage their future,,, by Blaine Bartel

1. Disobey your parents: God has placed your parents in your life to help guide you.

2. Make quick decisions: Before making a decision, take time to think it over.

3. Develop wrong relationships: The ppl you spend time with probably have the most influence on the decisions you make.

4. wait for your big break: You must get off the couch and pursue your God-given destiny.

5. Give up: Both winners and losers face challenges, but winners DON'T QUIT!

The End :D Hope you have enjoyed it!!

Mini me = Alexander Toh

Logan: suz ur akekeke sounds like Alex lor
Han then:That's cos the son is mirroring the mother LOL
Susana: :P the apple dun fall far from the apple tree one mah.. I'm glad that he is like me.. just wished my mom was still here to give me some pointers in how to train the "Mini Me".
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I do wished that my mom could be here for me.. she is very good with children.. always have been, that's why she had me :D (tt's why i think God have me to her..) even though I was a tough cookie.. she never gave up! She was firm and strich and did all she could to give me a good life. To show me how to live a life with dignity and pride...She took care of me and my brother all by herself... no one ever helped her.. NO ONE except God.. she sometimes regret that she could not buy me nice dresses when I was young because we were poor.. (I always cry when I think about that incident... i remembered it like it was yesterday..) She wished that I could remain a little girl.. that I would not have wings and fly away..

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but i did... I grew up and flew away... not because that I had loved her less.. NO!.. but because I was not meant to stay... it was never meant to be.. God did not ask me to go back.. even though i wished that it was so.. even though it was the most logical, most beneficial and most obvious way to... It was not for me to take the easy way out...

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Anyway, she said that I was not hard to train (I told you she was good!!), it was not hard to love me because I always have a certain charm (this I know... Coz i always makes her smile... ahahhaah) with my silliness and stupidity... I actually made her smile..

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I am a bit scared, coz I dunno anything much about being a mother..? How to train my children to behave, to potty train them, to teach them to be kind and polite etc... I really wised that she could be here... I thank God for one thing though... even though He took her away from me, He gave me a whole new family..My children have a faithful father, wonderful grandparents, uncles and aunties that loves all of us and most of all Godparents (and yi yi) that love my kids for who they are... (basically i have more help than my mom.. all thanks to God almighty...)

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Thank you Lord.. In You I Trust..

Kerana terdesak?..

Why would anyone throw their new born baby in the bin? What era are we living in right now? It is a horrible and cruel act! If you both cannot take the responsibility, don't even start anything! It takes two to conceive so don't just go blaming it on the girl even though the girl may be the last one to see the child. The 'boy' should take FULL responsibility also.

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I read this article in The Malay Mail stating tt there was a suggestion for the pregnant teen MUST be married to the father of her child to be legislated.

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HAR???? why? what if the guy raped her? or the person is her uncle? (youngest uncle in the family ke) or the boy is still a boy? (who cannot take up such responsibility, mentally and financially)etc...

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PREVETION IS BETTER THAN CURE. Don't have sex before marriege. If you both are not ready to have a child come into this world, then don't do it. OH.. you so clever~~~.. use condomn har..?? ya.. you think it is 100% safe? think again... Pregnancy pills? do you know wht it will do to your body if you take it without the advise of doctors? Having a child is no joke, the parents have to sacrifice themselves just to fullfill the basic need of the child. The freedom you thought you had is cut short and you are force to "grow up" (sort to speak). Teenagers should learn to take full responsibility of thier lifes.

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Perhaps this is what scared them so much so to do this sick act and murder the sinless child? The word RESPONSIBILITY.. I would like to know wht drives them to do such an act? For the Family's reputation? For their freedom? I mean, they need not murder the child for this? Is life so cheap to them that they can just throw it in the bin?

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Even if they were raped, they should stand out and take tt perpetrator to justice!!! They should stand out and speak up! Don't let these people get away with it! As for the child, they are gift from God.. not matter how they were concieved, they are precious life that needs to be protected,cherished and loved..

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Please talk to someone to get help if you found out tt you are pregnant before your time.. no matter what God still loves you and there is a way out.. please cherish life.. cherish urself and the little baby...

Alexander sayang Melissa :)

Melissa looked so stoned.... LOL..

Alexander would even give Melissa a kiss on the cheek with a big 'Smooch' sound.

I pray that they will be a loving pair of brother and sister..

Rebecca Graduation day's photos.. July 18th 2010

Congratulation to Rebecca!!! You have graduated with excellence!!! (How I know?) Coz Everyone keep asking u to take on responsibilities which shows that you are capable, reliable and responsible..

You made your parents and family proud!!! Not to mentioned we at NLRC Cheras too :)

All smiles with you and your mom..

I wonder who gave you the 2 bouquet of flowers :D

ahahaha Melissa is so awake.....

So... purple and pink is the theme for 'D' Day huh...?

Alexander is already curious on wht's in the flowers...

..the next thing we know is tt Alexander acts on his curiousity!!! haiyo... kacau lar this budak! LOL.

2 Weeks have passed, Observation should be over, real work starts NOW!

ALl the best and keep up the good work!

There us a law that made us free

In Romans 8 this truth is heard;

The secret is to walk with God,

And daily lean upon His word. - Hess

What's for dinner on Sunday?? (Superr long time ago LOL) :D

Raw materials for my soup!!! Peanut soup!!! Hmmmm yummy oh...

Fried potatoes... for my Curry Chicken...

Frying Luncheon meat.. in small cubes..

Garlic and Onions... all choped up and ready to be used :D

Mushooms for my pork dish... ahehehe..

"Lam Lui" (Hakka),eancurb from China..

For my pork dish...

Fu Chok...

Fried Potatoes for my egg dish.. :D (in small cubes)

For my curry chicken!!! Brahim..

MY PORK!!!!

Fried Luncheon Meat for my egg dish...

Fried Prokie.. :D yummy..

All set to cook my pork dish..

First.... I must cook my egg dish first... coz it's all ready... where's the eggs???

Tadah~~~~ Eggies..

Up close and personal with my egg dish.. ahahaha...

Nah.... nice or not? like fried rice like tt ahehehehe

My pork dish... :D

Lam Lui...

All my dish on Sunday...

Aheheeh... yummy~~~~

Long beans and eggs for Alexander.. :D

My son loves Cucumber!! LOL.. ever since he was a baby... he loves it.. he loves tomatoes too! he loves biscuit and energy bars.. those are some of the good stuffs he likes :P

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He likes coke too, fries, nuggets and fried chicken skin... we are limiting these intakes.. so he will not be hyperactive and gain too much weight (which he is not now, but just taking precautions..)

This is for lunch... Long beans and eggs...

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Hmmm... yummy... :D

Bye Bye Kikilala...

This was Alexander's shoe.. officially the shoe that he wore most of the time when he started to walk.. he got other shoes also but it couldn't last coz he out grow them too quickly..

The brand? Kikilala :)

The size? Size 4

Comfort rating? eh... I dunno lar.. if it was up to me to judge... perhaps... 7 out of 10? 10 being super comfortable..

Now he still can wear it without socks and for short distance walking only... (like going downstair to buy some stuff with his daddy.. ahehehe..)

Banana leaf rice!!!!! during our Corbis time...

I was already pregnant at the time and was not having much of an appetite to eat anything because of my morning sickness..

But when Chris suggested that we go for banana leaf rice for lunch... I was all game for it!!!

I don't eat curry one.. u can ask Nigel about it.. ahahaha.. but i really do like to eat Banana leaf rice.. :D may be it's the finger licking that I like about having Banana leaf rice akekeke...

mmmmm... yummy... :D

Mutton~!~~~ my fav!!!!

Everyone is having a superlicious time!!

I don't really remember where this was.. :D all I remembered was the food is good!!! mmmm..

Fingerliciously tasty!!

OOOhhh... Tea-O-Ice Satu~~~ lagi!!!!

It's a hot hot day.. but nice nice food!

Finitto Foodoo!! (means 'Finished food' in nonsense)

This is Paik Yin's special drink... some yogurt stuff gua..

I drink fruit yogurt but this one... eh.. I dun really like it.. too authentic for my taste...

BUT everything was great!!! Good food.. Good company.. Good times... ahh...