Don't use foul or abusive language...

Don't use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.~ Eph 4:29

My Loving & Kind Step Father..

Ahahaha.. dun they look similar with tt outfit? LOL.. this is the only photo we got to take while my step dad visited us during the recent CNY.. He is a very loving man, responsible and truly a gentlemen with a heart of gold..

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I call him 'Unlce' coz to me i have only one father and that is my biological dad.. and I always refer him as my step dad but when his relatives or friends called, he will refer me as his daughter.. feeling guilty? yes.. of course.. I call him step dad and he calls me daughter.. it's doesn't seem fair hor.. but i have my conviction..
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I remembered we went to China with him and my mom few yers back.. the other passager (same tour with us) complimented that I have a very good relationship with my 'dad'.. stund me for a while there when the lady told me tt.. LOL.. but it is true.. I'm close to him and I do treat him like a father to me.. but throughout the tour to China.. i call him.. yes.. u guessed it.. "uncle"... I guess the rest of the passangers were not paying attn.. But my mom did.. she called him 'uncle' too during the tour... making it sound like it is a personal joke among the 3 of us..

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I do love uncle like a father.. no doubt about tt... :)

never told him though.. a bit weird.. LOL..

2011 Reunion dinner...

This is shared especially for Violet :D This is how we celebrated our reunion dinner lor.. with all the fancy dancing, magic shows and games... I enjoyed it because all the dancing entertained Alex and he was very well behaved.. ahahah..

May be next year, we'll celebrate CNY in a different manner.. ah.. by then perhaps Melissa can walk d? ahahah..

Freedom.. yes? no??

Some of us will loose our focus (on God) when we come out to work.. some.. during our rebellious period.. others.. when we tasted the first freedom.. or when we've gone through some trials/temptations/mistakes...

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When ever our lives goes through some major changes, we tent to sway.. Our faith shaken, our focus blurred, our actions diverts.. What is going on?? Why things cannot stay the same? Like the good old days? either that.. or.. Why haven't I been living like this last time? This is wht it means to be free!!

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So, wht is freedom?

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Does freedom means we can do anything we want to? When ever we feel like it? sometimes without facing the consequences? Now that would be great.. Freedom to do wht ever and not care how others feel about it? (does that sound right to you?)

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Let's take a look at the meaning of freedom from a SLAVE.. Now, wht does freedom mean? To have the choice to do what he/she doesn't want to do..

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I think it is wrong to think tt we can have freedom in doing everything we want to do.. to a certain extent yes it seems that way.. but most of all.. freedom gives us the ability to do what we DO NOT want to do.. Let's say we have the freedom to lie.. yes.. we have made a choice to lie.. but once we have done tt, there is no turning back.. to sustain tt lie, we are forced to continue lying even though we want to stop it.. which means.. we have just lost our freedom to tell the truth.. to be genuine, to be real.. unless we confessed tt we have lied and repent (change our minds and our ways..).

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When we are captives of these 'so-call' freedom (like pornography, sexual immorality, homosexuality etc..) we are slave to sin.. we are addicted to these things that it is hard for us to stop..

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So do you think you still have freedom?

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If you realized that you don't, don't be discouraged.. You will overcome it through the faith and power God will provide you..

Just busy..

Busy busy busy... why so busy one?? Have to do so many things ler.. some more I plan to clean up Melissa's room so she can have more space.. meaning that I need to move my stuffs from her room lar.. ahahahaha.. I need to get some nice boxes from Ikea ler.. So i can nicely arranged it in my own bed room.. My store room is over flowing with stuffs.. I'm thinking of getting rid of a lot of stuffs..

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brb....

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.. ok back...

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The usual interruptions once a while kept me from finishing my writing in one peace.. That's how it is when we have two little ones i suppose.. sometimes it is a pain.. coz I really, and I mean REALLY, hate to be interrupted when I'm focusing on doing something.. Since young I really hate that.. I even remembered scolding my best fren for interrupting me when I was solving a maths problem.. she got a shock of course but understood my temper and waited for me to finish my 'work'.. I apologized of course but also reminded her that I HATE being interrupted like tt.. especially when I'm so focus on something and someone just broke my chain of thoughts!!! I really cannot tahan one lor..

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That is why it is pretty hard to hold my temper when my son keeps bugging me while I as cleaning, cooking or doing anything else for that matter! AAAHHH!!!! it drives me nuts!!! Sabar~~~ Sabar~~~ haih.. i do know i need to have more patience and I am learning... am I getting better? yes gua...

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again.. brb...

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ok.. back..

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... brb again..

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ok.. back... and hope this time i get to finish wht I wanted to say...

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wait....

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... what did i wanted to say?? see lar.. haih.. ok.. i gtg.. night... (Alex... Stop pulling my hand.. gggrrrrrr..)

Ending the 15 days of Chinese New Year Celebration...

Even though today is the day we end this festivity..

I believe it is also a beginning of a brand "something" for many of us..

Brand new HOPE, Brand new LIFE, Brand new journey etc..

Soooo much to look foreard to! Especially when you know that Blessing is on it's way to our lives!!

Nothing is more exciting then knowing God's blessing is here for us this 2011!

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but some blessings comes with a price..

Some price has been paid in full.. like our sin.. paid through Jesus's blood on the cross..

some, we have to work hard first... like raising our children..

we know in due time.. they will be a great blessing to to many :)

Some are inherited.. From generations to generations..

From God the Father to His Son and through the Holy Spirit and now in all of us...

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May God truly bless all of you this year and that you know how much we are bless everyday...

《我今年,二十七八岁》

So kesian.. I think a lot of young ppl (dun say 27/28 years old..) now a days are like this.. keep looking back.. haih.. STOP looking back lor.. if you keep looking back while everything is moving forward.. you'll keep tumbling and falling down.. and when you do fall and hurt again.. you ask yourself why.. WHY?? coz you are not looking forward lor.. You are not looking where you are going lor.. apelar.. Learn from the mistake and move on lor.. Leave the past behind..
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IT IS NOT EASY, I know. But all of us must move on if we want to be really complete in the Lord.. Thank God if you have Jesus in your life, coz He will help you go through the tough times, the lonely times and that you are not alone.. You are Never Alone.. but if you do not know this Jesus we are talking about, then I really encourage you to get to know Him more.. He is the person that whom we trust and will never leave us nor forsake us.. He is our true friend and companion.. Our counselor and redeemer.. Our Saviour.. The only way to true Joy and Peace...
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I don't want my young people to feel lonely when they are at tt age.. (Don't want them to feel like this NOW!) They should be living a purposeful life and not sighing at their past.. They should look forward to their future!!! Coz it is soooo bright, we need to wear sun glasses to invision it... ahehehe..
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SO be encouraged my young ones.. Jesus said: "I am with you always." Matthew 28:20

An angel in white dress... ;)

CPY Valentine's Party: Friendship Valentine

ALL OF US HAD FUN!!!

It was funny.. full of laughter.. even though the games was simple but it was really entertaining.. LOL

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Didn't took much photos.. You know how it is having 2 little ones.. especially when one of the little ones can't even walk yet.. Both of them got really cranky when it got really late past their bed time..

I brought chicken wing over!!!! Looks nice? It's nicer if it was eaten right after..

Opppss.. let you seee a burned part of the chicken d.. LOL..

This time the party is better organized coz it was not over crowded.. and we really got to know ppl and their names.. they cannot just blend in.. they must be introduced.. ahahaha.. we could improve on the timing though.. but we have also improved on tt area, coz we finished everything before 12midnight which includes cleaning the plc up.. (Thanks to Nigel's strick instructions.) but we are so sorry to have some youth 'kena marah' coz they were late.. :( sorry guys..

Everyone enjoyed themselves.. that was important..

We thank you Lord for the wonderful time, great company and enjoyable moments.. It would not be possible if it was not for Your protection and covering.. teach us oh Lord to be a better friends to others and at the same time be wise in everything that we do.. All glory to you... Amen..

Wong kok's food... well.. some of it anyway...

Looks more or less like the photos they show on their menu :)

The taste? ok ok lor...

Just tt their restaurant is really not bb friendly lor.. sooooo the sempit.. aiyo...

I'm forgiven.. becuase you were forsaken...

Would we be willing.....

...to be forsaken so someone else can have forgiveness?

...to put aside ourselve, our feelings, our pride, our face.. so someone can have it easier?

...to make the first move to make it better for someone else?

...to sacrifice something so others may gain?

..to exchange the pain so someone may have healing?

...to stand in the gap so that someone whould gain peace n salvation?

...to take insults and comdemnation so someone would have joy?

...to be vulnerable so someone knows that they are loved?

Would you be willing...?

Jesus did it for me.. I gladly do it for you in a heart beat.. coz I love you...
(but not die on the cross lar.. I'm not tt Holy nor worthy.. LOL)

Why I also kena one? why???

The title says it all..

Went for a good swim today :D

Went for a swim with my little Alexander.. ahahaha.. he loves it soooo much!! I just enjoy splashing and jumping in the water with him ahehehe.. after 15min.. Daddy and mei mei joined us.. not for a swim but they were having walks and enjoying the sceneries.. ah... wht an enjoying moment for us... even though it is a working day today for Daddy... we are still able to enjoy the small things like going for a swim... (actually, it's quite a hassle getting Alex ready and bathing him afterwards.. BUT!!! it's all worth it :D ahahaha)

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I'm still thinking how am I going to bring 2 little ones to go swim if I'm alone and Daddy is not free... hmmm... Can lar.. coz Alexander is big boy d.. he can walk the stairs on his own and take directions well :) better lar.. LOL...

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That's all for today!!! I hope all my frens and young ppl out there are having a wonderful time too with their love ones.. Especially when we walk in God's path.. no matter how tough, how scary the choices that you make.. IT's all worth it when it is for God's glory and His kingdom.. Many will testify to that!!!!

Isn't she a princess??

She just melts my heart!!! I can't help but want to kiss her and squeeze her and make her laugh and smile!

She has her temper and her stubborn demands but she is really sweet.. I hope she will grow up into a beautiful young lady.. Wise beyond her age.. long life.. healthy and active in many ways.. Loving, caring and gentle.. Humble, meek and kind hearted.. I pray that she will always have God's Joy, Peace and Wisdom.. most of all.. Love..

Always look upon God my Sweet Melissa.. He is looking out for you and He will guide you as His word is the lamp upon your feet.. light on your path... Stay close to God and please Him always..

Mommy loves you....

Great Job Elaine!!!

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Our sister in Christ, Elaine Kong had her very first Sunday Service Worship lead last week!!! aahahaha.. I think she did a wonderful job lor.. I know she will say it's not perfect but it will have to do.. ahehehe.. coz she has a very high standard!! and I think that is a good quality.. striving for excellence is good.. Especially when we are doing it for God.. :)

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I'm sure there will be critics.. but Don't be discouraged Elaine!!! Keep up the good work!!! We are here but to please God.. and He is proud of you for doing this even though you know all of us need more work.. We are proud of you too!! Yea!

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This is our Carol!!!! very talented and hard working pianist!! I always admire ppl who put in hard work then those who doesn't even though they have talent.. some who have talent and still work hard, I lagi respect...It's really good to have talents.. but when it comes to hard work.. it takes true character, consistency and discipline.. of course work on the right things lar har.. not do bad ah.. LOL.. (working hard to do bad is bad ok..) Keep up the good work oh!!

I'm so bless...

I'm so bless and grateful for so many wonderful things in my life..

Pass life was painful with some glipse of joy and love.. my present has it's heart aches but filled with hope and blessings... my future...

...brighter than the moon in the sky and sweeter then honey in the comb..

If I can choose how I would die.. I want to go when I'm at a very, very old age.. not becuase of sickness or from an accident...I want to see All my grandchildren (if God's will) I would want to die during a celebration.. when we are all having a really good time.. When my family and friends are gathered with children running around playing taggs.. Family and Friends chating and sharing joyous memories.. balloons and bright decorations every where!! Laughters can be heard all over the place!! Everyone is just having such a wonderful time!!!

And there I am.. sitting in a rocking chair.. looking at all this things happening right before my eyes.. and I thank God from the bottom of my heart... What ever I had to go through in life (those events that I may not even know yet..). it's all worth it.. Coz now i see hope in my children's eyes for a Godly future... I see Hope,Joy and Love in my grandchildren's future.. and I see loving memories from my old friends..

.. then.. I am ready to go..

Dun worry.. I'm not going off now.. LOL... sot meh? ahahah not so soon lor.. i still have a long way to go.. more things to learn and more love to share..

In remembrance of my mother.. we miss u~~

Has been keeping your number for two years even though I dun get to call it anymore..

I hope you are looking out for us from heaven with Jesus and that you are finally at peace from the pain of this world..

We are doing great over here.. thanks to your stern discipline and loving hands..

We are a better person, we hope we do u proud, always..

I may not be able to visit your grave every now a then, but I hope when you were still living..

You kown that I've loved you dearly..

Even though you are not here anymore, I think of you often and thank God for having you as my mother..

You are awesome!!! Super great :) i miss you and love you always..

TETAP CINTA YESUS SELAMANYA

KU MAHU CINTA YESUS SELAMANYA

KU MAHU CINTA YESUS SELAMANYA

MESKIPUN BADAI SILIH BERGANTI DALAM HIDUPKU

KU TETAP CINTA YESUS SELAMANYA

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YA ABBA, BAPA, INI AKU ANAK-MU

LAYAKKANLAH SELURUH HIDUPKU

YA ABBA, BAPA, INI AKU ANAK-MU

PAKAILAH SESUAI DENGAN RENCANA-MU

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Saya ampunkan kamu, sebab saya cintai Yesus.. Hanya Yesus akan layakan kamu wahai kawanku.. Kalau Yesus layakan kamu, saya tidak akan bantah.. Saya harus berdoa, supaya kamu akan kembali kepangkuan Yesus dengan pengakuan dan pembetulan daripada perbuatan kamu itu.. Semoga berjaya...

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