My Loving & Kind Step Father..

Ahahaha.. dun they look similar with tt outfit? LOL.. this is the only photo we got to take while my step dad visited us during the recent CNY.. He is a very loving man, responsible and truly a gentlemen with a heart of gold..

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I call him 'Unlce' coz to me i have only one father and that is my biological dad.. and I always refer him as my step dad but when his relatives or friends called, he will refer me as his daughter.. feeling guilty? yes.. of course.. I call him step dad and he calls me daughter.. it's doesn't seem fair hor.. but i have my conviction..
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I remembered we went to China with him and my mom few yers back.. the other passager (same tour with us) complimented that I have a very good relationship with my 'dad'.. stund me for a while there when the lady told me tt.. LOL.. but it is true.. I'm close to him and I do treat him like a father to me.. but throughout the tour to China.. i call him.. yes.. u guessed it.. "uncle"... I guess the rest of the passangers were not paying attn.. But my mom did.. she called him 'uncle' too during the tour... making it sound like it is a personal joke among the 3 of us..

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I do love uncle like a father.. no doubt about tt... :)

never told him though.. a bit weird.. LOL..

2011 Reunion dinner...

This is shared especially for Violet :D This is how we celebrated our reunion dinner lor.. with all the fancy dancing, magic shows and games... I enjoyed it because all the dancing entertained Alex and he was very well behaved.. ahahah..

May be next year, we'll celebrate CNY in a different manner.. ah.. by then perhaps Melissa can walk d? ahahah..

Freedom.. yes? no??

Some of us will loose our focus (on God) when we come out to work.. some.. during our rebellious period.. others.. when we tasted the first freedom.. or when we've gone through some trials/temptations/mistakes...

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When ever our lives goes through some major changes, we tent to sway.. Our faith shaken, our focus blurred, our actions diverts.. What is going on?? Why things cannot stay the same? Like the good old days? either that.. or.. Why haven't I been living like this last time? This is wht it means to be free!!

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So, wht is freedom?

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Does freedom means we can do anything we want to? When ever we feel like it? sometimes without facing the consequences? Now that would be great.. Freedom to do wht ever and not care how others feel about it? (does that sound right to you?)

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Let's take a look at the meaning of freedom from a SLAVE.. Now, wht does freedom mean? To have the choice to do what he/she doesn't want to do..

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I think it is wrong to think tt we can have freedom in doing everything we want to do.. to a certain extent yes it seems that way.. but most of all.. freedom gives us the ability to do what we DO NOT want to do.. Let's say we have the freedom to lie.. yes.. we have made a choice to lie.. but once we have done tt, there is no turning back.. to sustain tt lie, we are forced to continue lying even though we want to stop it.. which means.. we have just lost our freedom to tell the truth.. to be genuine, to be real.. unless we confessed tt we have lied and repent (change our minds and our ways..).

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When we are captives of these 'so-call' freedom (like pornography, sexual immorality, homosexuality etc..) we are slave to sin.. we are addicted to these things that it is hard for us to stop..

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So do you think you still have freedom?

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If you realized that you don't, don't be discouraged.. You will overcome it through the faith and power God will provide you..

Just busy..

Busy busy busy... why so busy one?? Have to do so many things ler.. some more I plan to clean up Melissa's room so she can have more space.. meaning that I need to move my stuffs from her room lar.. ahahahaha.. I need to get some nice boxes from Ikea ler.. So i can nicely arranged it in my own bed room.. My store room is over flowing with stuffs.. I'm thinking of getting rid of a lot of stuffs..

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brb....

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.. ok back...

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The usual interruptions once a while kept me from finishing my writing in one peace.. That's how it is when we have two little ones i suppose.. sometimes it is a pain.. coz I really, and I mean REALLY, hate to be interrupted when I'm focusing on doing something.. Since young I really hate that.. I even remembered scolding my best fren for interrupting me when I was solving a maths problem.. she got a shock of course but understood my temper and waited for me to finish my 'work'.. I apologized of course but also reminded her that I HATE being interrupted like tt.. especially when I'm so focus on something and someone just broke my chain of thoughts!!! I really cannot tahan one lor..

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That is why it is pretty hard to hold my temper when my son keeps bugging me while I as cleaning, cooking or doing anything else for that matter! AAAHHH!!!! it drives me nuts!!! Sabar~~~ Sabar~~~ haih.. i do know i need to have more patience and I am learning... am I getting better? yes gua...

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again.. brb...

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ok.. back..

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... brb again..

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ok.. back... and hope this time i get to finish wht I wanted to say...

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wait....

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... what did i wanted to say?? see lar.. haih.. ok.. i gtg.. night... (Alex... Stop pulling my hand.. gggrrrrrr..)

Ending the 15 days of Chinese New Year Celebration...

Even though today is the day we end this festivity..

I believe it is also a beginning of a brand "something" for many of us..

Brand new HOPE, Brand new LIFE, Brand new journey etc..

Soooo much to look foreard to! Especially when you know that Blessing is on it's way to our lives!!

Nothing is more exciting then knowing God's blessing is here for us this 2011!

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but some blessings comes with a price..

Some price has been paid in full.. like our sin.. paid through Jesus's blood on the cross..

some, we have to work hard first... like raising our children..

we know in due time.. they will be a great blessing to to many :)

Some are inherited.. From generations to generations..

From God the Father to His Son and through the Holy Spirit and now in all of us...

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May God truly bless all of you this year and that you know how much we are bless everyday...

《我今年,二十七八岁》

So kesian.. I think a lot of young ppl (dun say 27/28 years old..) now a days are like this.. keep looking back.. haih.. STOP looking back lor.. if you keep looking back while everything is moving forward.. you'll keep tumbling and falling down.. and when you do fall and hurt again.. you ask yourself why.. WHY?? coz you are not looking forward lor.. You are not looking where you are going lor.. apelar.. Learn from the mistake and move on lor.. Leave the past behind..
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IT IS NOT EASY, I know. But all of us must move on if we want to be really complete in the Lord.. Thank God if you have Jesus in your life, coz He will help you go through the tough times, the lonely times and that you are not alone.. You are Never Alone.. but if you do not know this Jesus we are talking about, then I really encourage you to get to know Him more.. He is the person that whom we trust and will never leave us nor forsake us.. He is our true friend and companion.. Our counselor and redeemer.. Our Saviour.. The only way to true Joy and Peace...
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I don't want my young people to feel lonely when they are at tt age.. (Don't want them to feel like this NOW!) They should be living a purposeful life and not sighing at their past.. They should look forward to their future!!! Coz it is soooo bright, we need to wear sun glasses to invision it... ahehehe..
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SO be encouraged my young ones.. Jesus said: "I am with you always." Matthew 28:20

An angel in white dress... ;)