More time to read n blOg..

I think, I will have more time blog from now on lol.. Why? Coz I will be taking the local transport to work soon! Save money and time coz it's too jam to drive to my new work place!!! 

KTM, you dun bully me ok? XD 

I found this sign on the door and have a kind of mixed feelings about it... As a women, I do feel more safe n comfortable coz I know I dun need to worry about unknown men to sit next to me.. But is this necessary?? Hmmm

Know our children well and teach them accordingly...

Just witness an argument, not really an argument but rather a Japanese mom explaining furiously to another mom, a european, about her child's (roughly 7 years old) bad behaviour towards her own child, who was having the toy first. (if I am not mistaken).. 

My take.. Dun mess with Asian moms LOL!!!! Their kids may seem hopeless but the mother hen is fiercer than a hungry lion! 

Made me wonder how should I react when I could be either one of the mother on the opposite side of the table... Hmmm... 

Everyone's teaching method is different.some very proactive while some passive but both teaches a hold something.. How to balance? How to teach so our children get the right lesson? 

I believe, it depends on our children's ability to access discipline, understanding and information.. Each child is different.. If our kid is selfish, we can teach them to share rather than further enforce that, 'I was playing with the toy first so its mine!!" While on the other hand should our kid is the passive type and always give way, we should enforce to him/her that she can command respect as well, by pointing out that, by right I have the toy first an you can have it later after I am done with it.." It would be out of kindness that I share it with you not obligated.. People should appreciate that and not take it for granted.. 

Well, that's my opinion lar.. What do you think? :)

I love my shoe!!!!

Don't you? Hahaha ok, you can disagree with me.. It's allowed here.. :p

I got this from Bangkok for only 100bath! Which come up to about RM 10.10? It's comfortable, adorable and hopefully durable as well :D I love it because its really special!! The two side dun match!!! Hahahah cute lar!!! I think this kind of shoe will cost me about RM39.90 at least? Depending where it is sold.. I saw a dress in publika sold for RM 150 where I saw a similar dress in Bk selling for only 400bath.. When will I get to go BK again!!! :p just go and shop with ma girl friends!! 

I know shopping is just a temporary happiness. It does not bring eternal value :) but when we share the joy with another friend or two, it becomes something special among friends that shares the same passion.. 

Just like sharing food!!! Hmmm... Yum yum... Eating sometimes for health but when eating yummy food with friends, it makes eating meaningful.. 

You know something else that when share with friends it becomes doubly great?! :) wht do you think?? 

I am really grateful to Jesus, my late mother n hubby...

God is really good, if Only i could find the time to just write the blessing I get everyday and share it to the world!! I am really grateful for His goodness.. 

I am from a very poor back ground where I use to only have my lunch with only rice and salted fish, not by choice. Not very nutrition either, but I never fell it was a bad thing until one day a friend of mine, I was in primary school then, pointed out to me that it must have tasted horrible coz only plain rice n salted fish wor? 

Haha I didn't mind, but it did got me thinking of my conditioned then.. Financial really poor with no help from anyone. My mom tried to work 2 jobs a day to hv food on the table.. Went the market on Sundays to sell her flowers and clean for ppl.. She really worked hard and gave her best for us..

With the food on my table now, I give thanks to my God, whom opened the doors of goodness and opportunities to his servants, and to my late mother, who worked hard, tough and firm so Tt I can a life I have now.. 

.. And to my sweet hubby, who allows me to indulge myself in good food while he dun mind having mixed rise for lunch everyday.. ( I no bully him lar... He really likes mixed rice more than fancy food..) 

Happy birthday Valerie!!!

Haven't been able to find time to up date my blog recently :) it's has been a great month with lots to do.. God has been great to me and my family.. 

Here's another family whom God has bless currently.. Baby Valerie is 1!!! Hahaha yea.. It was a great photo taking sessions and nice McD food..my kids got  2 new toys too!!! They played at the indoor playground and had yumilicious nuggets.. 

Doesn't the family look adorable!! Hahaha the cake was not only pretty but it was really nice!!! I love it!!! :d 

Hope little Valerie and her family enjoyed the day as much as we did.. And loved the gifts that was showered upon her on her 1 year old birthday :) 

When your calling is Boring.. by Relevant..

http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/when-your-calling-boring

After reading this, I became a little emotional for reasons only God knows why.. but roughly, perhaps I find that many ppl, young and old, are looking for their 'calling' and 'purpose' only to be define (by themselves and even by others) in the end to be boring, meaningless and not important enough.. 

Many of us see the need of a church, an organization or even in a family or among friends; criticize and complain about what should be done, why this and why not that etc. when what we should be doing is to be living in God's word and do our part right here right now... 

Ready to accept God's challenge, even when it means to be just where we are and who we are with.. The challenge is within us, not with the circumstances that is before us.. when Jesus, who is within us, becomes our ultimate focus, we can and will face anything and everything with supernatural vision and overwhelming joy even when it's a small thing to the world.. 

Ah~~~ Satisfaction to the fullest!! No wealth nor power; No fame nor fortune; No greatness nor recognition could fill my soul with great joy, besides the fulfillment of my God's calling No matter how big or small .. 

Philippians 4:8

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things." ~Philippians 4:8