Being Married :)

Many people have been asking me the same questions. "So how is marriage life?" "Any difference?"

With a smile my answer of course yes lar.. Even though Nigel and I meet basically everyday before we were married but now besides the convenience, we also feel that we have more time to be together.. We have more freedom and we are more focus.

What ever that we do we involve the Holy Spirit to teach us and guide us. We want to be a better person, for each other. And every time i feel i want to bust out of anger or frustration i would suddenly remember the vows i took on the alter. I remember the promises i made to God and Nigel, and i would calm down.. Its really amazing how God help us in our relationship, with Him and with each other.

I do believe Nigel have changed after the wedding.. he may not know it :) he became more confident, more open about his feelings and happier.. he is now able to be more focus in his work,able to enjoy and even share his hobbies with me. its really sweet that he cooks for me most of the time.. he'll say because i cook very slow and my food taste weird (hey! I'm adventurous.. like his dad hahahaaha) :P but for those who have tasted my food you be the judge lar ha.. but yes... i think i cook a bit slower than him and messier... still trying to improve :)

Well, overall i'm still discovering new sides of Nigel and its very exciting ahahah.. we have been going out for about 6 years and on the 7th year of our relationship we got married and we are still pretty much in love with each other.. Thanks to Jesus :) Nigel makes me laugh, he is not a joker or anything but he just amazes me with his comments and its also sometimes (or most of the time) farny lar...

I thank God for Nigel.. many have said that we are so different... not just in sizes but even in terms of character and preference.. but we have one thing in common.. We both know that God loves and cares us. He has a great purpose for us and we are to work things out for God's Glory..