The dirrefent faces of Alexander.. LOL

Melissa smiles a lot... but for now only got one picture :D

Isn't she the cutest!!! LOL... But she is only awake when someone is carrying her.. or late at night.. so.. I dun get to take a lot of photos of Melissa compared to Alexander.. but will have loads of her photos soon :) my little honey-bee..

... I.... dUnNO... whAT....2...SaY..

Have you had those moments?? when something shocking happens and you just don;t know how to react to it but keeping yourself quiet?

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Haih... I keep quiet so I would not explode and caused much damage(s) but sometimes I really felt that I should have said something.. But then, what ever had been done, not that the other person dunno that I disapprove? dispite that, they still do it... And not that they dunno that it's wrong? Why still continue..

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If I say or dun say anything, will it even make a diff?? Why keep going around in circles and eventhough one realizes that he/she is/was wrong.. still continue to do it? Not only hurting others, it's hurting themselves... why? why??

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Obviously.. I forget that, we human, are THAT weak sometimes.. including myself.. I forget THAT is why we need Jesus soooooo much in our lives... That He is the only one who could really and truly help us overcome... and that's not all..

EVEN WHEN WE FAIL HIM, HE'LL NEVER FAIL US!

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I'm certain that Jesus will use me.. to speak or not to speak according to His timing.. He will teach me even how to speak so that I will not be judgemental but be full of grace and just.. I believe I can make a difference, if only I trust in Him who made all the difference in everyone's life :) including my own..

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Jesus.. You are truly great.. We can only reply on You.. Your are my fortress, my tower, my refuge, You are my all in all... Amen..

My Urut Sessions..

What come to your mind when it come to Massages? Calm.. Relaxing.. release tension.. Aromatherapy..

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For me, it means pain especially when it comes to post-natal pregnancy massages..

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Of course I'm not going to show you the massage process.. siao meh.. ahahah...but I'll share with you the things they brought for the massages :D

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Below is one of the leaves where they will use it to wrap the rock (Batu Tongkol).They call it the Hot stone treatment. I've seen the fruit of the plant b4.. it said to have some medical content for certain diseases or illnesses.. Looks like a worm to me.. iissh... but it doesn't move.. so it's okie :)

Below are some grass or leaves from a plant for me to take my bath... I've forgotten wht is it called :P but it's ok lar.. may be it helps to 'buang angin' kot..

Ini dia... Batu Tongkol.. Not sure is this the correct spelling? :P
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I dun really enjoy when they put this on my tummy.. even though they have wrapped it with loads of cloth and the leaves.. it's still very hot and the water from the stem really burns...
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This one is about 7 kg wor.. there is another smaller one which is about 4kg..


Still got one more thing I did not take photo... coz i have it still at home.. It's the 'Kain Barut' where I am suppose to tie around my adornment so it will slim down my tummy as well as keep my uterus in place..
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So the final question would be.. did it help slim me down??
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Yes it did.. I still got s bit a of tummy.. will not go back to the same size so fast but I'm pretty satisfied lar.. :D slowly lor.. since I can';t take the pain from the urut also.. so I suppose still got a bit of tummy it's normal ler.. :P
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Alexander taking a bath.. in Melissa's tub!!!

How can you say no to that smile!!???

ahahaha.. he is too cute and happy to chase him out of there...

Psstt.. he was wearing his diapers when he was in there.. LOL.. :D

Alexander taking a bath.. LOL..

He just love taking a bath.. he loves the water very much.. wish I could bring him for a swim soon..

May be after my confinement, we'll bring both of them to GodFather Logan and GodMother Sharon's place for a swim.. of course only Alexander will get to swim lar.. LOL.. but bb will have to stay dry until after 6 months.. she is still too fragile for a swim in June..

Doesn't he look cute!!! LOL...

Sunimag latest "candies".. :D

Just ordered this from Korea!!! Really nice stuffs :D

More to come oh!!! ahehehe... You can check it out on FB.. Just add SuniMag (Username) and click on the photos.. you'll see it.. and you can also see the pricing.. Enjoy!!!

Our very first family photo!!! :D

Taken by Lydia Yee on 7th May 2010 (night)

We had to give Alexander the itouch just to keep him with us..

Little princess looked like she is sqeezed by us.. ahahahaha..

such a darling.. such gentle character... loving her more everyday..

Baby Hui Ern's Visitors tt came to our home last week.. :D

Just want to thank those who have visited me at the hospital..

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Didn;t get to take photos.. haih.. sad.. I wanted to but too much in pain that I didn't had much 'feel' to take any at the time.. the most I can do was to talk to you guys :D hope all of you understands..
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Thank you Katherine Chiang, Christopher Lim (GodFather), Erni, Vivian Lee, Jane Teo, Tien Ching and Ryan.
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The first to came to our rescuse is my Parents in law. Who took care of Alexander while Nigel and I was in the hospital for the delivery... Appreciated their help and company..

Then Lydia Yee drop by on Friday night :D and she again was the one who took our very first family photo with princess :D Appreciate her company very very much..

Thanks Han Then, Julian, Wai wai and Isaac :) sorry if we was not hospitable enough.. still trying to get use to handling 2 babies.. (Alexander is still very young.. toddler still)


Great to see my bro and family!!! Kennedy, Irene and Edward!!!


Appreciate the visitation of Bro Kevin and family.. Bringing me the Rice wine as well ahahaha.. thank you for that!!! :D

This are gifts from my mom.. weird huh.. My sister-in-law told me that my mom asked her to get me and my next child a silver hand bracelet.. (For bb is leg bracelet..) I remembered my mom even without any gifts to remind me of her... Coz she is special and will always be in my heart.. :D

Happy Mother's Day 2010!

One year ago today was one of the most difficult day of my life. Having to serve on Sunday as the Worship leader was really.. hard.. I thought I could overcome the grief but I couldn't..

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On that Sunday, I broke down and cried before my worship team, asking God why must I do this today, I could just ask for someone else to replace me but I still feel compeled to come and lead today.. on my first mothers's day without a mother.. God was quiet and I knew He knows what I am asking of Him, He did not take this cup away from me.. because it is His will be done... not mine..

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Today, I'm celebrating it yet another year of mothers' day. This time, with a new life in my hands.. a little princess has been given to me.. I am truly blessed.. I may not be able to celebrate it with my friends in church or even with my mom who is in heaven, but in my spirit I am celebrating God's grace and love upon my life right now. I pray that my mother would be proud of me, not only having another grandchild for her, but also being the person she hoped I would be..

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I praise God for all the things, situations and people in my life.. All of it brings tears of sorrow and joy but always it is for the good of His people.. and as i see it.. It is good..

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I want to tell you something I always did for my mom when I stayed with her. Every morning she would go to work early and if on those days I dun have classes, I would actually wake up late.. ACCEPT..

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On those days, the min I heard the door opening and my mom was about to go off.. I would wake up and say a loud "GOOD BYE" to her.. and she would reply my good byes and... I continued my sleep :D I know it's nothing important.. but it was.. it was meaningful. WE NEVER PARTED WITHOUT SAYING GOOD BYE, we never parted in anger or arguements.. we parted with love, hugs and kisses..

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I have no regrets, I have only loving memories of my mother and greatfulness for all her doings.. I am proud of her, for her strength, her courage, her sacrifices, her determination, her kindness and her patience and love.

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I love you mom... Happy mothers's day to every mothers!

Welcome Princess Hui Ern.. on 4th May 2010 at 11:50 pm

We thank God for our little princess.. Toh Hui Ern.. (Shall up date all with her English name once confirm :)

Arrived at Pantai Bangsat at 1150pm on 4th May 2010 with a weight of 3.18kg.