Not only i look fat but now i snore???

Haiya.. the other day Hubby told me i snore now a days..

HHHhaaaaaaaaaaa???? I snore?? WHY???? Yer... so pai seh... I normally dun snore one as i think i sleep in a proper position and i am not too fat... NOW!! i think because of my "extras" and my weird sleeping position.. i contribute to the "noise polution" in the room..

So since Nigel and I both snores.. and my dogs snores too.. All of us are now making music every night when we fall asleep.. haih...

He yanked my bolster from me!!!!

My lovely and adorable hubby YANKED my bolster from me last night.. Literally yanked it over to his side and hugged the thing while it was placed BEHIND my back (Since i sleep in an up right position as it feels more comfy).. Apelar...

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So can you imagine what i may be experiencing during the time? EArth quake!!! Typhoon8!!!

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I called his name but he didn't realized it as he was very much asleep.. i looked at him and he didn't even move an inch!!? alamak... i though to myself... his own bolster was with him all this while and he want to high-jack mine? Aiyo.. i think he must have been dreaming and tt was an act of mild "sleep-walking"

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Come to think about it... it's quite funny!! ahahahaah... I was like all alone in the dark trying to figure out what just happened and no one.. not even my dog felt anything... in the still of the night some more... so I decided to just go abckt o sleep.. but took me a while to do so..

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In the early morning, i think hubby realized that he took my bolster so he let go of it and i dunno how i realized it as well and took it back and place it back where it belongs... then went back to sleep again.. ahaha.. so last night, it was not BB who woke me up.. but Nigel... aheeheehee...

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I think we should turn off the air-con to prevent hubby and my dogs to 'take-over" my side of the bed.. Coz i noticed that whenever we have the air-con on, they tend to sqeeeezzzeeeee to myside.. (may be i'm warmer or what but i dunno lar..) but even my dogs likes to sleep on my side of the bed... could be my side got space lar.. dunno.. :P

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but i need the cool air also.. since i am producing much heat and contributing to the "room-warming". Well until next time... sleep well everyone....

Eh? Ape Itu???

It's a mad mad world out there!??? Even the animals have gone nutz!!!!

Beware of the pick pockets ducks!!! they always work in a team...

In some cases... humans too... :P

hang it there dodo!!! just a little more work out like this we'll be Mr Universe in no time!!!

A little more to the left... yup yup.. that's it... awwwww... that's awesome....

Wait for your turn buddy....

Up dates on my pregnancy??

I am now 69.1Kg!!! and BB is 2Kg at the moment :D good weight actually..

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Went for check up today but didn't get the MC coz i 1) i forgot to ask for one 2) before i can ask for one my doctor left d :P So since it's still early and i feel great and full of energy.. i decided i come to work lar. ahahah..

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Everything is fine with me and my bb.. I am still calling our bb, bb... coz i still cannot decide on 2 names for him.. so i am still prayer for the right one... Once i can decide on his chinese name i will start calling him d lar..

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i can sleep better now but i am sleeping seating up.. i mean.. like when you want to read a book in bed, you put pillow behind your back and read your book?? like tt lar.. so i sleep like tt and if i were to turn.. the position doesn't really change much :D Coz every time i move, bb will move more aggressively. He will actually start kicking!!!..

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Someone told me i should not sleep like tt coz may squeeze my internal organs.. but i feel most comfortable sleeping like tt wor.. how?? any idea how should i sleep?? Some ask me to put lots of pillow... but put where??? i got 2 pillow, another small one and a boaster? not enough ke?? i even exchange Nigel's boaster with mine coz mine not as soft as his one.. akakaka...

My friends birthday- Joanna Chan

Happy birthday to Joanna!!!
May her days be filled with much joy lar;
With hugs and kisses from her 2 little boys,
Who are her great pride and joy.

May Nic be strong and wise to her,
For she needs a strong man to guide and support her;
May their love bloom from now till forever,
And they will always love and respect each other.

May Joanna grow in Faith and Grace,
May her love and thoughtfulness be embraced;
By those who is always around her,
Could see the Christ like in her character.

On this special day of her birthday,
It is sunny and the day is gay;
Surely God bless and plan that today,
Would be wonderful and special in every way.

Happy birthday my friend!!!

Today's Crazy Drivers!!!

This morning's traffic was scary... We encountered 4 silly drivers on the road who drove very dangerously!!

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The first one was the DBKL Lorry!!! The lorry just swerved to our side of the lane without even noticing that they were so close to out car!!! They have to come very close coz it was a turning to the left and they almost miss the turn.. so dangerous!!! Nigel have to slow down just to let them pass.. without honing them... he so patient.. if me!!! haih!!!! mati dia... :P

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Then this HUGE Lorry tt carries kayu balak type was driving into the high way and because we are on the left lane of the high way where it want to turn in, I can see that the lorry driver drove the lorry like it was a F1 driver!!! SO FAST!!!!.. of course it is scary.. if there was no car in front of the HUGE lorry, I think we will need to also slow down just to let this one go pass us as well!! It's so HUGE.. this Huge vehicles are really "sombong" lar.. No wonder so many accidence happen because of these Huge vehicles..

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Another funny incident... this one involves a slow moving tractor on the high way... there was a lorry tire puncher and so the drivers were fixing the mess. This busybody driver of the tractor slow down and some more talked to the lorry driver~~! where 1, there is already a jam caused by the lorry and 2, that the tractor is already very slow... now he drove slower some more!!! OOiiiiii... move it lar!!! talk what talk!!!?? Causing so much unnecessary jam and trouble..

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The fainale!!!! As we were turning to the Mont Kiara road.. this small lorry was reversing!!!! from a distance it was reversing and i think trying to get to the highway with it's reel end!!! OOIIIiiiiii you are going to wrong way!!! this is so dangerous!!! why can't you just go straight and turn some where further in front!! Should one car did not see you coming, they could have banged into you! Head on!!!

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What is going on with these ppl??? haiyer...

Current thoughts on my Maternity Leave...

Next Q I will be off from ministry for a while.. From Worship and Youth ministry.. but doesn’t mean I am out of touch with you all ya!!!! Especially you young ppl!! Don’t think I dunno what would be going on oh… Wahahahahaha… God will tell me aheehee.. (Devious smile)

God’s eyes are always upon you. Some of you may feel relieve; some of you may be feeling scared.. it all depends on how your life is right now.. when you are in distress or living your life in accordance with God’s will, you will feel secure coz you need someone to watch over you, but if you are.. ahem.. Doing something “illegal” in the eyes of the Lord.. you feel pretty scared right now, I’m sure :P COZ HE IS WATCHING YOU!!!!

Aheehee… dun be scared lar.. be joyful that someone from so high up would want to keep an eye on you.. right?

Sometimes we feel so restricted because there is someone always busy body with your business. Especially the ones with more authority and keep giving us advise that we don't wanna hear. Asking us to be accountable and ‘report’ back what we have done and questioning us why this and that… Very annoying and ‘sien’ hor..

But have you ever thought that all this actually helps us to keep track on our lives? For our actions? On our attitudes? For our safety? All the advise or comments or even some of the critics are for our own good.. and we never appreciate them until sometimes it is too late.. So let’s be accountable to each other… with your family, friends and peers.. yes.. we are accountable to our friends too. Why? Coz what ever you do affects them.. if you fall they feel your pain and your hurt. So we should always inform, or let ur friends be involve in your life. Coz you’ll never know when you will really need them and when they will truly need you…

What are the benefit of doing Quite Time - by CPY

Some Great Benefits CPY gave on Quite Time:

-Know God more/Get closer to God/Understand God's word more/Get Personal with God/ Knowing how to be a child of God

-More concentrate towards God/Quite and Peaceful time (no noise) with God

-Make you more committed to God/Learn to be dedicate/ Practice Self-Control andDiscipline

-Spiritual maturity/Spiritual Growth/Mature characters

-To guard ourselves/Not Easily tempted to sin

-More wisdom and blessings from God/Protection from God

-Knows what action or attitude is wrong and what action or attitude is right/ Filled with the Holy Spirit

-De stress/ Things can go smoothly/ Ask for help when ever we face problems

-See Visions/ Increase in Faith

-Make God happy and proud of us.

Wonder how many good reason we NEED to have in order for us to be move to ACTUALLY do our quite time?

What a face!!! PArt 2

Quiet Time - What's the Big Deal? Why Is It Important?

Quiet time can be so difficult to prioritize. It's tempting to make excuses or just not bother. Preparing our hearts to hear from God requires a focused effort. Noise, whether outside or inside, distracts us.

If we fail to understand the importance of having a regular, committed quiet time with God, we are not likely to hear His voice…the one that whispers, "This is the way; walk in it" (Isaiah 30:21).

God longs to spend time with us. Consider what He was willing to do for us, in order to reunite us with Him. Is it asking too much that we devote daily time to Him?

Jesus set the example for us concerning quiet time. He took time to connect with the Father regularly, as the following Scriptures tell us:

"Then Jesus went with his disciples to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to them, 'Sit here while I go over there and pray'" (Matthew 26:36).

"Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed (Mark 1:35).

"But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed" (Luke 5:16).

Credit goes to: http://www.allaboutgod.com/quiet-time.htm

Minie was unwell last night...

Our poor Minie was vomiting last night.. Dunno how many times she vomit.. on our carpet.. in the toilet and once on the side of my bed.. Kesian her...

She always simply eat things one.. this is what happens when you curi makan too often and makan anything you see.. She sometimes even eat the button from the doll.. and munching nonsense such as tissue or rubbish... Not that she dun have her food there... her food is always available for her..

Haiyer... Made Nigel and I so worried only and every time she puke, Nigel will wake up and keep an eye on her for a while and clean up the mess she made.. When i look at her poor face, she look so guilty and ashamed as if she new she made a mess and create problem to her bosses.. she looks so cute with that guilty face..

This morning she looked ok.. hopefully no more vomiting.. good lar. I am sure she will be fine now.. Minie always gets into a bit of trouble one hor.. aheeheehee... that's her trade mark lar as she is more adventurous and greedy.. Daisy on the other hand is always the lady, very cautious and careful.

Bunny Part2

Who is Dexter?? Let's spot Dexter!!! :D

Dexter?? where are you!!!

There you are!! STANDING ON THE SIDE :D

(no no not the Indian Guy!!! Tt's our driver for the day)

Can you Spot Dexter here??? aheehee

Can you all see him?? aheeheehee

next time we'll play spot Nigel or Spot Nic. wahahahakakakaak with thier old photos.. :P

Till next time!!!

Another tagg.... by Jerrica...

1. The last person to tag you is?- Jerrica ;)

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2. What relationship of you with him/her?- She is my anak.. ahahaha.. Spiritual Daughter lar..

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3.Your first impression towards him/her?- She very shy and sweet looking

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4.The most memorable thing that he/she has done to you.- lemme see… When you opens up during the EW..

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5. The most memorable word that he/she has say to you?- Thank you.

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6. If he/she becomes your lover, you will..- be a lesbian!!!!! Ahahaha

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7.If he/she becomes your enemy, you will..- make her cry everyday I meet her wakakakak… aren’t you gald tt we are not enemies?? :D

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8.If he/she becomes your lover, he/she has to improve on..- She must be more charming and talkative, more daring, bold and unpredictable…

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9.If he/she becomes your enemy, the reason is..- she is a totally bad and horrible person!!!! Like Hitler!!!

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10.The most desirable things to do for he/she is?- shower her with gifts!!! Love, hugs and kisses of course..

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11.The overall impression to he/her is..- Awe so sweet… candy sweet…

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12.How do you think the people around you will feel about you?_ duuno… why dun you ask them? :D

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13.The character you like of yourself is?- I am Monica from Friends!!! Tidy freak?? Wahahaha… I love everything about myself!!! Aheeheeee…

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14.On contrary, the character you hate of yourself is?- Eh?? Laziness lor…

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15.The most ideal person you want to be is?-What Jesus wants me to be? More like Him but we all know we’ll never get there.. :P

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16.For the person who cares and likes you, say something about them.- Love you all so much!

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17.Ten people to tag: har…. Dun wan lar… no need to do this part lar.. I just randomly anyone in my head ya… You all no need to do the tagg ok?

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1) Yu yi

2) David Ong

3) Jin Ing

4) Jeremy Liau

5) Jerrica Liau

6) James Lim

7) Christopher Lam

8) Joshua Liau

9) Beh Su Jane

10) Abigail

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18.Who is number 2 having a relationship with?- wah… I know he should have a gf lar.. but dunno who wor…

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19.Is number 3 a female or male?- She is a lady.

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20.If number 7 and 10 be together would it be a good thing?- They are cousins.. nah.. wouldn’t work out.. ( Chris and Abigail)

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21.How about number 5 and 8?- Wahahahaah… worst!!! They are bro and sis!!! ( Jerrica and Joshua)

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22.What is number 1 studying about?- Language and hair styling J ( Yu YI)

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23.When was the last time you had a chat with them?- some all the time, some sometimes, some not really any more..

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24.Is number 4 a single?- nah.. he should have a gf.. dun think he can tahan being single for very long time :P (jangan marah Jeremy..?)

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25.Talk something about 2.- He is alright right now I guess.. gaining much weight like his bro though..

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Tagged again.... by Yu Yi :)

Tagged!
by the Yu yi

::instructions::
Never see the questions before you arrange the names - all mentioned below are TAGGED by me!

1. Rebecca
2. Jenny
3. Stephanie
4. Dexter
5. Wai wai


Here comes the questions;

1. How did you meet 1? -Rebecca
She was introduced to me by a church member from another church. She wanted to join our youth group.

2. On a scale of 1 - 10, how would you rate your friendship with 1? -Rebecca
1-bad, 10-very good… I’ll give it a 10!

3. How long have you known 4? -Dexter
Met when he was about 12.. now he is 18.. about 6 years ago gua..

4. How do you know number 3? -Stephanie
She join our youth when her family decided to join our church..

5. Where's 5? -Wai wai
He ah… he is every where!!!! Coz he stock everyone’s blog!!! Good ei?

6. A fact about number 1? -Rebecca
She's like the big sister among the young teens in CPY and she is very sisterly..

7. Who is 4 going out with?- Dexter
The last person I know would be a girl called Kye Ly or something…

8. What does 1 do for a living? -Rebecca
Still studying, in nursing, serving God.

9. Would you live with number 3? - Stephanie
Sure!!! Why not? Provided she wanna live with me wahahhahaha

10. What do you like about number 2? -Jenny
Oh!!! She is the bubble tt pops in our group!!! Joyful, playful and funny…

11. Do you miss number 5? -Wai wai
Miss him?? Please lar.. I always see him on msn if not my blog… ahahah… no lar..

12. Would you make out with number 4?- Dexter
OH GOD NO!!!! yukkssss!!!! Please dun ask such silly and unexpected questions… he is like a little brother to me… oh goodness!!!

13. What's your opinion on number 2? - Jenny
Eh? So many opinions… eh.. oh.. errm… which one to write ah??? She is nice? ( you never say it has to be very specific right!!!!?)

14. What's your favourite memory with number 5? -Wai wai
Fav memory ah? Lemme think ah… it’s not a special event though… but every time he listens to my advice is my fav memory with him.

15. What will you do if number 1 and 2 were going out?- Rebecca & Jenny
Well, being sisters in Christ there is nothing wrong with going out for shopping or movies… but if you mean going out=dating.. then I will be very worried.. and I will just freak out and froze!!!! All I can do is pray tt THIS IS NOT HAPPENING!!!!!

16. Ever had a long conversation with 5? -Wai wai
Of course… it's one of our lovely pass time.. :P

17. Have you ever slept at 2's house? - Jenny
Almost did!!! but now cannot d… married d…
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I mean I’m married d.. not she married d.. :D

18. Do you hang out with 3 a lot? -Stephanie
I tried my best to.. but can’t seem to find the time now a days… haih…

19. Who have you known the longest?
Aiyo… dunno lar.. met Dexter first.. I know he assisted first lar among the 5… wahahahaha…

20. What will happen if number 1 and 5 have a relationship? -Rebecca & Wai Wai
WAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAAKKKKKKkkkkaaaaaa… droop---à (laugh until my stomach drop out!)
Okok… if you are talking about sis and bro relationship then I will say they are already in one..
But if you are talking about “love” relationship, ya… I will laugh until my stomach drop out!!!

21. How often do you talk to 1? -Rebecca
Wah… very often.. at least once twice a week… any opportunity we have on msn, sat and Sunday service.. J

22. What about 2?? -Jenny
Same same.. but connect with her more via her blog…

23. Have you ever thought 3 more than a friend? _Stephanie
Yes… she is like my daughter.. all of the 5 are like my kids.. tt’s why since I am already raising some, why not have my very own!!! Mini Susana or mini Nigel wahahahaha….

24. Would you go on a date with number 5? -Wai wai
Sure, like a mom going out with a date with her young son.. why not? I think it’s really special and nice..
I always love the loving Father who brought his young daughter out for a special date, just the two of them and share a good evening with each other. I think it's really meaningful…

25. Do you dream about number 2? -Jenny
Lemme see… depends on how you define dream.. actually dreaming about her--> not really.. but dream of her being great and successful in the future.. why yes! of course!!!

26. What did no.4 did to you that you can never forget? -Dexter
Not that he did anything to me, but rather what he did for me… when he send people back, so that Nigel and I can rest for a while..

27. What have you done for/to 1 that the person never forgets? -Rebecca
That one ah??? I dun really know wor? Make her cry :P coz according to Nigel it’s like my hobby/past time.. ahahaha .. You ask her lar..

28. What's 3's hobby? -Stephanie
She likes reading.. playing the piano.. and chit chatting… eating may be one of it also.. (Am I right??) correct me if I am wrong…

29. Tag more people.
I tag tag tag….besides the 5 ppl… Joanna P, Jerrica, Jeremy, Michelle P, Han Then (Dun think I dunno your blog akeekekee..) who else ah??? Kien Hong?? U got blog?? If yes then u also kena tagged…

7 weeks to go...

Another 7 weeks to go? So fast ler.. I dunno what to expect or should I say when to expect :D coz we can only estimate the date of birth but the real deal would be in the hands of Our Lord.. so I wonder when will our first born child’s birth date be.

I think I have figure out the name for our son. Aheehee… Thank you for your voting but God’s choice is the right one for our son. And the name is…. Nah… not telling yet ahahaha… let’s see if I can keep it a secrete until… some one actually heard me calling our son with his name :P

I am glad to find some support or even encouragement for our decision on using more traditional way of dealing with our son. It is a bit inconvenient and more hard work needed but we think it is for the best.

Yes, having children in our lives takes a lot of commitments and a lot of work. Should one is not ready then one should wait a while till God touches their heart. Sometimes people ask “Why don’t want to get pregnant already? Married a few years d what? Should plan for a kid d.” Even though it's nothing wrong with this concern question, but I think it’s better just to wait for people to tell us that they are expecting rather then asking them and stressing them to have a kid when may be they want to but can’t or they are waiting for the right time or even they are not really ready for tt kind of commitment. I mean I’m sure they have their reasons and when they do tell that they are expecting, isn’t it more exciting, surprise and joyful rather then asking them all the time and expecting a difference answer?

I need to remind myself that also.. coz now tt I am expecting, I may have tt tendency to ask others “So when is your turn?” no good no good…

Vote for our son's name??? :D

卓义恩--- TohYi Ern--------- Justice/Righteousness, Grace
卓圣恩--- Toh Sheng Ern---- Esteem Character and Wisdom, Grace
卓佳圣--- Toh Jia Sheng----- Goodness, Esteem Character and Wisdom
卓君圣--- Toh Jun Sheng---- King/Gentlemen, Esteem Character and Wisdom
卓君豪--- Toh Jun Hao------ King/Gentlemen, with great Talent
卓荣恩--- Toh Roong Ern---- Glory, Grace
卓聪恩--- Toh Chong Ern-----Intelligence, Grace
卓荣圣--- Toh Roong Sheng-- Glory, Esteem Character and Wisdom

How I choose these names? By God’s character and His will for our son… With some prayer and hard work, I went through the Chinese dictionary as well. Ahaha…

Nigel is still searching for baby’s name in English and I am almost there with his Chinese name. I carry these names in my wallet and consistently praying for the right one. Some say the first name that comes into your mind would be the one.. I wonder is it true? :D

Why dun you give me your vote for the names above and I’ll tell you God’s choice for our son?

Have fun…

P/s: Doesn't mean we are to choose the highest vote ya? Nor be influence by it :D just wanna know which name you like... aheeheehee...

Chinese are immigrants?? So my children how???

If I am a Bumi and married to a Chinese, what makes my child? who is a Chinese? Foreigner ah?? What Mr. A said with much arrogance about Chinese being the immigrants is really ridiculous!! No meh??

I am born with Bumi mix with Chinese blood but of course I follow my father’s family name which gives me the Bumi rights. But saying the Chinese are Immigrants and they can always leave the country is really disturbing. Even for me, where is the saying “Satu Bangsa Satu Negara” went? Down the drain ah?? Geram!!!!

So my mom also immigrants lar? Who is born in Malaysia? At first I am very angry at the statement but right now I feel sad as why many still thinks tt way? Do you mean when we Malaysian achieve Merdeka the Chinese/India was not part of this country? Who Tunku Abdul Rahman was fighting for also? Our forefathers also contributed right? Hang Tuah? Yap Ah Loy?? Don’t count meh? I’m sure there are others that were not mentioned in Malaysian History. That is why some still thinks it’s only ONE race that have brought Freedom to Malaysia but that’s not true!!!! All races played an important role in building this nation!

You mean Datuk Lee Chung Wei, our Olympic winner is an immigrant also?? Duh..?? Who gets the credit ah?? Chinese? Malay? Indian??? Or Malaysians??? Duh???

Ok, I do agree sometimes as Bumi, as Malay, Chinese or even Indians we have these traits. Like Chinese are always like this, Bumi are that, Malay, Indians are this and that.. We have some perceptions for other races and some can be true and negative. BUT, we are all in the same boat and we need each other to make this nation GREAT. Now that many are more educated, we understand the meaning of Unity, don’t we? Then why are we acting as if we are not educated enough to understand this simple fact?

Sad lar.. really… because of his statement I have to ask my Malay friends do they think us as immigrants too? I dun think so they will think tt way lar.. If you know a another race as a good friend, I’m sure you would not think your friends in such a way.. I’m sure of it.. so I encourage we Malaysians to be friends to all races… many may say dun care what race they are lar, just make friends… I say care for what race they are, coz that is what makes them who they are and what they believe in, but let’s put away our differences and focus on what is more important.. for Friendship and Unity.

P/s: Having Buka Puasa dinner with our Malay friends tonight :D happy to be a part of a mix culture… I hope our children will have that privilege too.. :)

Cell phone vs. Bible

Cell phone vs. Bible
Ever wonder what would happen if we treated our Bible like we treat our cell phone?
What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we flipped through it several time a day?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to Kids as gifts?
What if we used it when we traveled?
What if we used it in case of emergency?
Does this make you go.... hmm... where is my Bible?
Oh, and one more thing.Unlike our cell phone, we don't have to worry about our Bible being disconnected because Jesus already paid the bill.
Makes you stop and think 'where are my priorities?
Trust in the Lord and *ASAP (Always Say A Prayer)Have a blessed and wonderful day!

What a face!!!

I wan food..... i'm hungry... please???

Zzzzz......

I'm no rabbit lar!!!!

Mama...

No hair in the middle ler.. so have to cover a bit...

Oi.. do you know who are you talking to? hummm??

You are lunch to us you know..

IIs it Holloween yet??

Bluuuuuuurrrrr.....

Imposter!!!!!

Can you find the imposters???

How i look now that i am soooo pregnant!!! ahahaha...

Toilet and Food...

Smart lar you.... dun forget to flush ok fatty??

Ai?? why you so clumsy... fell into the toilet bowl while doing ur business???

Or that is your position for doing ur business?? hhmmm.. dun get flush down the toilet!!!

Do u really think that helmet gonna help?? you are not riding on a motorbike you know..

AAAIIIIiiiiiiyeeeerrrrrr........ what you doing ah??? Playing hide and seek?

Dun gimme that cute face of innocents ok? u better clean this mess up or no dinner for u!

aheehee... that's why lar.. greedy ler...

Thank you for your gifts!!!!

baby is so so blessed!!! Many mommy and daddy's fren send you gifts even before you were born... :)

Here are your thoughful gifts from Auntie Joanna and Uncle Nic..

Here are your thoughful gifts from Auntie Violet and Uncle Darren..