Friday, October 17, 2008

From Nic’s blog:

Nic came up with the 5Cs of courting girls.. I will share the same 5Cs to maintain a good relationship between boys and girls.
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Chemistry
Sometimes we just click with some people while sometimes we need to nurture the friendship. In any way, friendship should always come first. How to be together and happy forever after should you are not friends? Being lovers will not always be so ideal but being best friends would really be a wonderful life long experience.
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Communication
Besides communicating the details of your fav food, drinks and places to travel to, it is also important to know the person’s priorities, values, principles, belief and faith. What they stand for and what are important in their life. Should these things are not known there would be a lot of misunderstanding arises later.
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Composure
Being calm and confident is important in time of crisis. But dun stand there like a piece of wood lar.. Do something positive and solve the problem. Don't just stand there and act like a cool cucumber and do nothing to solve the crisis. Same goes to girls, pls don't always expect the guys to do things for you, everyone is independent and should you can do it yourself, do it yourself.. unless by letting the guy do certain things actually makes them feel good, then allow them to take the honor.
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Characteristics
Being yourself is important but having good character IS important. If you are rude, ill-mannered, bad tempered, abusive, unkind, demanding, controlling etc even if it is the REAL you.. don't think many girls would stay long with you and vise versa. So before you wanna get a guy/girl that last, please improve or at least give your best to be a better man/women. We are not prefect, yes.. but we can be better..
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Compromise
Nic is so gentlemen to let us girls win.. aheehee.. and yes, thank you for being understanding. As for the girls we too need to compromise coz we all know men are men, they don't operate the same way as we girls do. Thus, we too need to be patience and kind to them as well, always encourage, always caring. Nag less and be kind in words. Unless there are some really serious issues like gambling, drunkenness, unfaithfulness etc.. then counseling may be needed lar.. as for a normal relationship settings.. please overlook the nose digging, the farting, the dirty clothes and bad fashion sense etc Compromise.. ahahaha
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Do add on what you think we (Nic and Myself) have missed at your blog.. it would be interesting to know wht you think of the 5Cs..

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