Is it hard to be friends?
I suppose there are many levels of friendships... there are close friends, good friends, hi-bye friends, superficial friends, bosom friends etc...
I wonder what kind of friend I am in the eyes of all my friends? There is this Chinese description of a friend that is so intimate its like the other person is yourself.. "Zhi Zi" (in Mandarin)
Its really not ez to find that kind of friend.. where the person knows your every thoughts, knows your every move and what it means, knows your facial expression signals approval or disapprovals, knows the sound of your voice means you are happy or not, etc.. you know what I mean?
It's like the worm inside your stomach!!! S/he knows you so well as is s/he is you!!
No need to say anything, just being there makes you feel comforted. No need to do anything, you'll know your Zhi Zi is thinking of you. No need to say a word and know that your Zhi Zi is definately your friend for life. No need to show and you'll know that S/he cares, love and cherish you...
I hope i'm talking about your future spouse too :) and a friend with the same gender...
I suppose there are many levels of friendships... there are close friends, good friends, hi-bye friends, superficial friends, bosom friends etc...
I wonder what kind of friend I am in the eyes of all my friends? There is this Chinese description of a friend that is so intimate its like the other person is yourself.. "Zhi Zi" (in Mandarin)
Its really not ez to find that kind of friend.. where the person knows your every thoughts, knows your every move and what it means, knows your facial expression signals approval or disapprovals, knows the sound of your voice means you are happy or not, etc.. you know what I mean?
It's like the worm inside your stomach!!! S/he knows you so well as is s/he is you!!
No need to say anything, just being there makes you feel comforted. No need to do anything, you'll know your Zhi Zi is thinking of you. No need to say a word and know that your Zhi Zi is definately your friend for life. No need to show and you'll know that S/he cares, love and cherish you...
I hope i'm talking about your future spouse too :) and a friend with the same gender...
One Zhi Zi that i would never wanna miss out on would be... :) you have a guess??
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