Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Wat R U thinking...

Young people now a days dun like to read long long stories, but good stories dun come in short paragraphs. Same with wanting to live a good life, there is no short cuts to it. Hard work, perseverance and determinations plays an important role. Without the right values (from Jesus) and the right help (from Jesus) we'll never make it in life.

You dun wan 2 study, wan 2 work; You wan 2 start dating at a young age; You wan 2 start drinking alcohol; You wan 2 try smoking; You wan 2 go Disco/clubs; You wan 2 get layed ETC..

YOU cannot handle it!!! Your brain is not mature or develop enough to think or to differentiate what is right and what is wrong, Number 1; Number 2, Your character have not been develop to its fullest potential, as you will change and grow consistently; Number 3, start thinking and acting like a true mature, responsible and wise adult then see if you will do these things at your age now.

You dun wan 2 study, wan 2 work: "If you are thinking for your family, i understand. Being poor and need to help the family is a noble cause but do get some form of education to improve oneself later. But if you are just thinking for yourself, you better think twice! Education is not everything, yes! but it will help. Don't just because 'i don't want to study' then you don't study and start to work without thinking about your future."

You wan 2 start dating at a young age: "Hello? Do you know who you are Really dating? Do You even know who you Really are? what you want in life? Who you really want to be for the rest of your life? If you can't even answer these questions, please don't ruin other people's life or break other people's heart. It could you being heart broken."

You wan 2 start drinking alcohol: "Even if your parents allow you to drink alcohol know that it doesn't mean you can drink like there is no tomorrow Or its cool to drink at your age. Have you met people with Liver cancer? Liver failure? A bad drinking problem and start hitting their family and young children? Drinking is not the way to relieve, its way to destruction!Remember that.Don't be proud that you know how to drink, its nothing great about it."

You wan 2 try to smoke: "Ai-se-men! Not only you wan to kill yourself but you wan to kill the ones close to you! i know some gentlemen who doesn't smoke in front of non-smokers.(thank you) but its not easy to quit smoking and it kills your lungs and you'll have bad breaths and deceases wil visit you sooner than you think. Don't start young, it will kill your youth."

You wan 2 go Disco/clubs: "1st question, why do you want to go there anyway? Nothing better to do ah? Most of the people that goes there either facing problem at home or they are really wild. I advise that don't start getting addicted to hanging out in those places. Its not healthy and it only give you a temp "happy" feeling. I know you just want to try 'been there done that' kinda thing, just don't get addicted. I know people at their forties and they still love to go disco/pubs. please lar, grow up!"

You wan 2 get layed: " Come here, come nearer and I'll give you a slap on the face! Don't laugh buddy! This is the worst thought some of you teenagers think about! (ok, killing, stealing, burning other people's house, hurting people, rape etc is worst lar) Why would you wan to give a way your virginity to someone who is not faithful, who will not marry you, who will not take care of you when you are ill, who will dump you for a better person, who will walk out on you anytime, who flirts around, who is a jerk, who doesn't respect you, who never commits etc.... I know, you didn't know that the person is going to walk out, going to dump you, not committed etc.. then if you are not sure? why give away something so important??????????? stupid right??? (please forgive me for my language, but its really STUPID!!!!)

i am not so bad in person, but when i really cannot tahan and you are very close to me, this is what i will say to you. (To those who have tasted my scolding, i'm sorry. I love you too much to ignore the things that will destroy your life in the future.)

I know we all make mistakes but don't do it for the sake of doing it. The consequences is sometimes long term and devastating. I have seen people going "been here done that" and they are not happy with their lives, and now for those who have "been there done that" i know one person, only one person can help you.... that's Jesus. (Don't worry, He is nicer than me :)

1 comment:

Mag said...

Comment from a fren:

1. FACE IT! Today’s living without a graduate status meaning you have to strive 10 TIMES harder just to get a RM 2k + job or LESS. It’s ok when you’re 20. 10 years down the road, your salary will still maintain at RM 2k + . OR if you’re planning to become an entrepreneur, trust me, without education, you will need to strive 50 times harder to get there, you will realize you will need to study again to succeed your business. WASTE OF TIME. When you’re 30 , you’ll know how hard it is to get back to books.

You will have at least 35 years to work after uni graduate ( if you’re good luck enough to save for retirement and make sure your kids are all grown up by then – 55 years old.) so why start when you’re a teenage? So that you will work 10 years more than others? do you think you can retire earlier if you start work earlier? You get what you want now, but you will never get what you need in the future if you give up education now. Ask a successful person who never have CHANCE to study when they were young, I believe they always wished that they get to go to school just like others.

Think again, it’s not all about money, you will be very less cool when your kids ( if you are able to afford one in the future) tell you that they want to quit school and be like you one day. Why would every parent want their kid to study even though they themselves quit study during young age VOLUNTEERLY? I am not sure if they regretted? But It’s really not just about the money, THINK AGAIN 

It’s 21st century oledi, WAKE UP!

OR Maybe success is not what you want in life? You just hate to study. Then maybe you don’t even know what you want (Think again, is all you want is a thousand plus salary so that you can buy all the things you want NOW? IS THAT ALL YOU WANT? Think of the job that you can bear with without even a SPM cert, doing those jobs for the REST OF YOUR LIFE? Think again!!!! ) You have a choice, not like those who does not.

MOST IMPORTANT is : Do what you should do when you’re a teenage. Why grow old so soon when you’re not ready to get mature  Why want to be so old when you have the chance to be YOUNG!!!!!

2. Changing partners from age 15 till “the DAY” ( probably you will want to marry at age 30 or may be never) makes you look cool, right? Having one partner in life, makes you look so lame, right? Start dating at age 23 / 24 /25, OMG right?

OR you felt that you really really really really really really really really really LOVE someone right NOW and you want to be with him/her for the rest of your life NOW at age 15? 16?17?18?. Are you sure? HAHA, then get married now  Why not?

OMG! You are so acting old again. Probably you should end your life at age 20 since you already experience everything in your life at young age  Nothing is beautiful anymore when you really grow up.

3.WOOW! You are so talented in not getting drunk after drinking so much. The older you are, the more you drink and ppl will be impressed.

Ppl will be “impressed”, OMG . Do you really buy that? Or maybe you think you’re not that stupid, then why drink so much? Or you have watched too much drama and believe that alcohol can make you feel good after experience something bad? ALCOHOL is WASTE OF MONEY, TIME esp to woman out there, ALCOHOL will make you look VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY Old after 25 or if you’re lucky enough to have good gene, the most 30. You will look like an old lady by then  Of course, same goes to GUYS. You will look like ah pek when you’re 30 if you drink like there’s no tomorrow every weekend. Or once a month starting from NOW!!!

4. DO you know that you have to pay MUCH more when you buy insurance if you’re a smoker? Or you don’t even think of getting insurance in the future, then go ahead  And does smoking helps in slimming, YEAH probably but it even makes you grow OLD faster. How come all these reality facts never cross your mind? Yeah I forgot, you’re only 15/ 16/ 17 or 18? 

5.Have you seen a 40 year old uncle embracing a 20 or 15 year old teenage at clubs or 40 year old auntie preying for young man’s love at the bar? You might become one of them one day, since you like the disco so much and you see it as a second home and you sleep there almost every weekend  These 40 year old ppl started their clubbing life at very young age like 15? 16?17? or 18?

5.ONCE AGAIN, you want to get OLD so young, trying all the things at ONE GO! Good , your soul can “die” faster  Live like a zombie at age 20 after giving away EVERYTHING so soon.  Everything was beautiful at the age of 16/ 17 / 18. But all ends at 20? Congrats, you already tried everything before the age of 20  You spent your WHOLE life in 20 years, you can start paying “debts” after your teenage life  Carry a heartbroken life for another 50 years more and ruin your life because you still feel sad about yourself. Not everyone knows how to learn their lesson, that’s why a lot of ppl have pathetic life out there screaming that they are so lonely, unloved , blah blah blah. Will you be lucky enough to learn the lesson after you get layed? Or being wild?

Do the right thing at the right age  Enjoy Life in 60 years to come, you will only have regrets and sorrows if you spent your life too fast  Love yourself, love your life 